The Truth About Love
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3 min readFeb 17, 2021
“Love isn’t love if it’s earned.” — Cathy Heller
I was listening to Cathy’s podcast on Valentine’s Day and it hit me right in the consciousness. Although I’ve been on this journey of cultivating more self-love for myself, it still hits me every time to realise that I’ve been ‘outsourcing’ my love to others, always seeking for approval in order to feel loved.